You have trouble delegating authority. Until you learn to hand over duties to other colleagues, relatives and roommates, you'll be overwhelmed. Relinquish some control, even if it means being dissatisfied with the results. It will take time for others to learn how to perform certain duties to your satisfaction. Be patient and compassionate. It will be much easier for the people around you to get better if you give them gentle encouragement. Harsh criticism will feel like you've rubbed salt into gaping wounds.