When it comes to romance, don't settle for second best. If you're in a relationship that has lost its lustre, talk to your amour. Discuss ways you can recapture the magic that brought you together. By letting down your defences, they'll meet you halfway. Are you single? Hold out for someone who is worthy of your attention. Going on an endless round of dates can deflate your self-esteem and lower your standards. Reserve your precious time for people who are respectful, considerate and engaging.