Money will not bring the happiness you seek. Stop pouring all your energy into a job that is undermining your personal life. Spending time with your nearest and dearest is critical to your emotional health. If your career won't allow you to sustain meaningful relationships, it's time to find another line of work. Your impressive leadership abilities will be welcomed at another company that doesn't expect to consume your life. Are you unemployed? Stop insisting on meeting a particular salary level.