You're not especially freewheeling, preferring to do things by the book than develop new ways of doing things. This can be difficult for your family. Some of your relatives are tired of carrying out traditions they find meaningless. Instead of insisting they toe the line, let them pursue their own interests. It's possible they prefer relaxing at home to attending religious services or public events. By allowing them to spend their time the way they want, you'll get the respect you deserve.