Acting like a martyr won't advance your interests. It will only make others resentful. If you're vying for someone's heart, be honest. The object of your affection will respect you more when you stop pretending to be noble. Have you fallen in love with someone who is in a committed relationship? Find an outlet for your frustrations. Pouring your energy into a creative project will be more productive than pining away for an impossible dream. Protect your heart.