You're tired of being at the beck and call of a needy person. Whether you're dealing with a hypochondriac friend or jealous romantic partner, it's time to put an end to this dynamic. Until you put your own needs first, your resentment will continue to build. Don't bat an eyelash if you are accused of being selfish. Anyone who is honest knows you are incredibly generous. If the only way your loved one can get attention is by making unfair accusations, it's a sign you should part ways.