Stepping out of your partner's shadow is critical. You tend to defer to others, preferring to promote harmony than command attention. This keeps you from realising your full potential. Rather than postponing your dreams for the benefit of your other half, do something daring. Get an advanced degree, show off your handiwork in a public forum or submit written work for publication. Don't make a big song and dance of this decision. You don't have to discuss your choices with anyone.