You're about to make an important choice about a relationship. Being more assertive with your work or romantic partner is critical to your health and happiness. Although you are drawn to authoritative people, that doesn't mean you should always follow their lead. When you strongly object to a proposal or desire a change, speak up. You'll feel so much better about yourself. As an added benefit, your other half will look at you with renewed respect. If you've been longing to live or do business overseas, make your case.