You don't appreciate it when a loved one discounts your feelings. Go on the defensive the next time you are accused of making a mountain out of a molehill. Normally, you're eager to put differences aside for the sake of harmony. This is not possible now, when you've been deeply hurt by someone's behaviour. It's time to issue an ultimatum. If their disrespectful attitude continues, you must walk away. You'll feel like a tremendous weight has been lifted from your shoulders as a result.