Being too loyal to family can be a mistake. Losing your identity is a real danger when you try to please others all the time. When your relatives push you into an undesirable arrangement, resist. Your defiance will send shock waves through the group. You're usually very accommodating with loved ones. The sooner you assert your needs, the happier you will be. Don't buy into guilt trips. Never apologise for your feelings. This is your life; take control of it.