Don't mix finance with romance. If your partner needs a loan, be ready to turn them away. You don't want to encourage a bad habit. Are you in a relationship with someone who has a terrible addiction? Stop trying to rescue them. Save yourself instead. The sooner you get some distance from this relationship, the better you will feel. You're tired of feeling guilty about something you can't control. Take this opportunity to indulge in self-care. A trip to a place with a beautiful setting will be therapeutic.