Don't give away your power to a charismatic lover. If you're seeing someone who is always keeping you off balance, demand better treatment. It's important to know where you stand. There's no point being with someone who doesn't think you are utterly wonderful. Parting ways from this troubled relationship will be liberating. Instead of second guessing yourself all the time, your confidence will return. Soon, you'll return to your favourite creative hobbies and this troubled union will become a distant memory.