A loyal and trusted friend or a business or romantic partner is concerned about you. They think you are pouring too much energy into work. In addition, they resent your continual absences. These complaints are justified. Your life/work balance is out of whack. It's time to adjust the scales. If your job is too demanding, look for one that doesn't require you to be constantly on call. It may be necessary to take a pay cut, but that will be a small price to pay for personal happiness.